Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a thin mucous membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “hymen”. Scientists tell us that it has no particular function in the feminine body. According to them, it’s just there; but why would the maker put a breakable tissue full of blood (that contributes nothing to the body) at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched? Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why?
Without doubt, the hymen is a gate! It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day. This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges in to this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward. Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed.
The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, etc.) said it in clear terms in 1Cor.6:13 , “Now, the body is not for fornication”. Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he/she is working directly against God’s plan for giving and keeping his/her body and there would definitely be a consequence either now or at old age. There a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters in to her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it. As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognised in the spirit realm of both light and darkness.
The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another person. Many have washed useless boys with that hymen blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny. Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual activity with demon-possessed men while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it. If only they knew, many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so.
The Bible says it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her (1 Cor. 6:16). You cannot be one with a man and still be one without him. This means that the persons involved are no longer complete without each other. And just like it takes God’s divine ability to make 1 + 1 = 1 in marriage, it would also take God’s divine intervention to make 1 – 1 = 1. This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.
Dear reader, know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. That hymen is your gate and it was meant to seal you up (close you up) till you mingle with a man that has married you (not fiancé). One that will not carry your worth away or go and dump it in another woman’s soul. That hymen is a thing of pride. This is what men use to classify a lady as untapped, complete, chaste, intact, brand new (cha-cha) and unused. You would agree with me that this kind of ladies are getting rare.
Don’t listen to anyone who shouts down on virgins as outcasts, weaklings, unfortunate, small girls, etc. if only they told you the real truth about the spiritual poverty they feel deep within; you would have received boldness to celebrate your virginity in style. If you are still a virgin, please don’t join them. Stay chaste! Stay complete! Cover your body, dress well! Be proud of it! I hereby boldly say that it is a honour for a woman to experience sex for the first time after her wedding night and even the people that deny this fact know deep within themselves that they are only making up for their disgrace. Several of such have been broken into by cunning ruthless men who have robbed them so cheaply. Don’t break that hymen: It’s your gate and if you’ve broken it, allow the Lord to miraculously close you up now before you’re totally emptied of value and virtue! He will soon provide optimum security for you in a faithful man if only you trust Him.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications. A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter. The fun part of premarital sex is not really funny. What happens in between the lines (behind the sin) could be deadly and dangerous. HIV is just one among many of those demons of darkness sent to inflict pain on those who practice unauthorised and casual entry of a woman.
Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage bond or contract. The truth is that you would have lost nothing, if that man you gave it to has been martially joined to you in holy matrimony as your one and only husband because he remains with you forever. In that case, he would retain your virtues and never leave with it. But what happens when you give it to a man who is only promising but actually just intends to catch his fun and run away. You would lose what he took from you forever. Then imagine what happens when that man enters you to take you in to himself more than 20 times and goes over to another lady down the road to do the same thing. Then imagine what happens when ten men do you like that. What will remain of you? If not for the salvation that comes with Christ Jesus which is ever available for all who cry out for His cleansing and mercy.
Just in case you have a broken gate already out of an irresponsible, careless or casual sexual affair, May be you’ve even terminated the life of your very first child (in a deliberate abortion) in the process, Jesus is waiting for your call, no matter what you’ve done, only Him can restore back to you all the self-worth you’ve lost so unworthily. Hear Him say “Come!”. Why would you continue living a wasted life? His own blood still washes white as snow.
If you are still a virgin, then hold your head up and don’t break that gate. Don’t break it till the man who will sign his life to it has come. You’re not a sex object. Never flaunt your sexy nature, that’s a sign of worthlessness. There’s more to you, much, much, more than sexy. When a guy is attracted to you, let it be because of who you are and not because he saw your cleavage. You were made for a purpose in God. Find God and you will find it!
Don’t break that hymen because you need money. It’s of far more value than dollars. No! Not because you feel lonely:- it secures you till you possess true companionship. No! Not because you’re turned on:- it shields you from stuff that would shut you down. No! Not because you’re stuck in a place and you’re forced to sleep over; you had better sleep on a tree – it’s worth it. Remember, that hymen is your sexual gate, placed there by God and there is blood in it. If that gate must break, If your blood in it must be shed, then let it be on the body of the man who has married you (not just the one promising to do so).
You may actually need to cry to God to restore you! But whatever happens, make up your mind and repent! If you need some help or counselling, you can also get help from any man or woman of God closest to you; or simply get in touch with us. You can also find out and make it to the next SOV national Ladies camp. God bless you!
SEGUN COKER is the visioner of the Virtue Blazers Club (VBC) and the School of Virtue (SOV). He is extremely passionate about the youth.. A gifted writer,leader, and teacher, especially in the communication of Bible based truth; he is a voice for virtuous living in every sense of the word. An information technology professional by training, he combines this with itinerant ministry as a speaker in conferences and seminars far and near. He is married to Solape and blessed with three children.